Your wedding music will stay with you forever. It’s part of the experience for your guests and yourself.
You want to include tracks that are personal to you and have special meaning. Most importantly, during the key moments of your wedding ceremony and reception.
These individual moments are what stand out in a wedding, so it can be a lot of pressure to select the right songs. Having said that, our comprehensive wedding music guide lists song options for every significant beat of your wedding day.
But first, let’s take a look at when music is played in a ceremony and during the reception.
You want to take your wedding entertainment seriously, as a surprising 70% of brides reportedly wish they had spent more time planning this bit.
Don’t just play soft, slow, romantic wedding songs throughout the night. Mix it up and have a more elaborate playlist for each of the segments below.
You’ll have to select songs for the following activities during your wedding ceremony.
Guests Arrival: Guests usually take a while to arrive and take seats. It’s a good 30-40 minutes, during which time people can get bored. Just playing some slow romantic tracks can get things going.
Wedding Party Procession: As the wedding party enters one by one, you also need to choose songs for their entry. The parents and grandparents, groomsmen, bridesmaids, flower girls, and ring bearers all enter as individual groups.
Walking Down The Aisle: The last part of the wedding procession is when the bride walks down the aisle, and undoubtedly, it’s a major highlight of the ceremony.
Signing The Register: When the newlyweds and witnesses sign the register, it can be quiet for the guests. So, upbeat songs are expected during this part of the ceremony.
Exiting The Ceremony Venue/Recessional Walk: A celebratory song is traditional for when the newlyweds exit the ceremony venue.
The reception has some big dance moments which require a killer playlist. Here are the different segments of the reception that require musical consideration.
Grand Entrance: The couple usually makes a grand entrance to an upbeat song. The song doesn’t have to be too gooey romantic; it just has to be fun and focused on having a good time.
Wedding Breakfast: The wedding breakfast is when guests finally have a chance to relax and enjoy their meal before the dancing starts. You want to choose some relaxing songs for this part of the reception.
First Dance: The first dance is very special for the couple and you want to learn a formal dance like the waltz or the Foxtrot. So, romantic and slow music that is easy to choreograph and dance to is your safest bet.
Father-Daughter Dance: This sweet moment is one of the best parts of a wedding reception and a special song dedicated to this lovely bond is best to play.
Mother-Son Dance: This is another special moment between the groom and his mom. At most weddings, a special song and choreography are planned for this dance.
Open Dance Floor: At this point, the dancefloor is open to the guests and a set playlist makes the experience much more fun.
Last Dance: Usually, a banger is reserved for the last dance, which is full of energy and celebration. After this, the reception comes to a close.
Prelude songs to relax your guests when they first arrive and set the mood are important to getting your wedding ceremony going.
10,000 Hours - Dan + Shay, Justin Bieber
Budapest - George Ezra
Truly Madly Deeply - Savage Garden
She’s Always a Woman - Billy Joel
Iris - Goo Goo Dolls
Riptide - Vance Joy
The Night We Met - Lord Huron
Yellow - Coldplay
Invisible String - Taylor Swift
Just The Way You Are - Bruno Mars
You can play multiple songs to introduce the wedding party or play a single song for everyone. It really depends on what the couple wants. Here are a few good options for your wedding party to walk into the ceremony:
Stand by Me - Ben E. King (Parents)
What a Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong (Parents)
Only Time - Enya (Ring Bearers)
Dawn - Jean-Yves Thibaudet (Flower Girls)
Love Story Meets Love Story - Jon Schmidt (Flower Girls)
Appalachian Spring - Aaron Copeland (Ring Bearers)
Moonshine - Bruno Mars (Groomsmen)
Love Someone - Jason Mraz (Groomsmen)
Rhythm of Love - Plain White T’s (Bridesmaids)
Ho Hey - The Lumineers (Bridesmaids)
Love on Top - Beyoncé (Bridesmaids)
Open Arms - Journey (Groom)
Stay With Me - Sam Smith (Groom)
Open Arms - Journey (Groom)
You Are The Reason - Calum Scott (Groom)
Walking down the aisle is the bride's big moment. It has to be perfect as that walk is what the bride has dreamt about forever. Here are some song choices for this momentous occasion:
At Last - Etta James
Crazy Love - Michael Bublé
Unchained Melody - The Righteous Brothers
Love - Lana Del Ray
Marry Me - Train
Wild Love - James Bay
Come Away With Me - Norah Jones
Kiss Me - Sixpence None The Richer
Love Me Tender - Elvis Presley
Endless Love - Diana Ross
Forever Afterall - Luke Combs
La Vie En Rose - Emily Watts
Paper Rings - Taylor Swift
She’s Got a Way - Billy Joel
All of Me - John Legend
You must keep your guests entertained during the quieter part of the ceremony. Live band music can be a great way to keep the mood upbeat. The following songs seem perfect to play when signing the register:
Amazed - Lonestar
Your Song - Elton John
Ain’t No Mountain High Enough - Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell
Be My Baby - The Ronettes
Wonderful Tonight - Eric Clapton
Halo - Beyoncé
I Believe in You and Me - The Four Tops
Walking on Sunshine - Katrina and The Waves
The Best of Me - Cliff Richard
Your Song - Elton John
When the newlyweds exit the ceremony venue, which is also known as the recession walk, upbeat music is played to celebrate the union. Just playing a 4-minute song will be enough for the regression walk.
Signed, Sealed, Delivered - Stevie Wonder
Unconditionally - Katy Perry
Happy - Pharell Williams
On Top of The World- Imagine Dragons
Happy Together - The Turtles
Only Exception - Paramore
Girls Like You - Maroon 5
I Like Me Better - Lauv
Uptown Funk - Mark Ronson ft. Bruno Mars
All You Need Is Love - The Beatles
Depending on the couple's personality, the entrance can be done on a short 30-second instrumental or a 4-minute song. Here are some upbeat and energetic songs that are perfect for making an entrance:
Can’t Stop The Feeling - Justin Timberlake
Raise Your Glass - P!nk
Shut Up and Dance - Walk The Moon
Sweet Disposition - The Temper Trap
Cheerleader - OMI
Levitating - Dua Lipa
Fearless - Taylor Swift
Good As Hell - Lizzo
Best Day of My Life - American Authors
Sugar - Maroon 5
Feel So Close - Calvin Harris
Love on Top - Beyonce
Just Dance - Lady Gaga
Time After Time – Cyndi Lauper
Dancing Queen – ABBA
Wedding breakfast is the time for the bride and the groom to enjoy their first meal together as newlyweds. Although it’s called breakfast, it’s usually a full three-course meal. So, it does take a while for everyone to finish. During the meal, you can play the following songs.
Beautiful Day - U2
I Want to Hold Your Hand - The Beatles
Got My Sunshine Set On You - George Harrison
Everlasting Love - Love Affair
Hey There Delilah - Plain White T
The Scientist - Coldplay
First Day of My Life - Bright Eyes
Apple - Julia Michaels
Big Parade - The Lumineers
To Love Somebody - Bee Gees
I’m Kissing You – Des’ree
When You Love a Woman – Journey
Now comes the biggest moment of the reception, the first dance. You need just the right song to perform in front of your friends and family.
If you have a romantic song significant to your relationship, this can be your first dance song. However, you can go with any one of these sweet songs below as well.
Thinking Out Loud - Ed Sheeran
Lover - Taylor Swift
Thinking Bout You - Frank Ocean
You Are the Best Thing - Ray LaMontagne
I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing - Aerosmith
Say You Won’t Let Go - James Arthur
Make You Feel My Love - Adele
First Day of My Life - Bright Eyes
Fly Me To The Moon - Frank Sinatra
Sweet Creature - Harry Styles
Enchanted - Taylor Swift
Better Together - Jack Johnson
Always - Blink-182
You and Me - Lifehouse
Under Your Spell - Desire
The father-daughter dance makes for a sweet moment celebrating this special bond between father and daughter.
You can go for sentimental music or something fun and modern. Nowadays, with the internet, father-daughter dances are even becoming viral.
My Little Girl - Tim McGraw
Isn’t She Lovely - Stevie Wonder
Wind Beneath My Wings – Bette Midler
My Girl - The Temptations
Lean on Me - Bill Withers
When My Little Girl Is Smiling – The Drifters
Daddy – Beyoncé
The Best Day - Taylor Swift
You’re My Best Friend - Queen
Hero - Mariah Carey
Where You Lead - Carole King
Stairway to the Stars – Ella Fitzgerald
My Darling - Wilco
I Loved Her First - Heartland
Sweet Pea - Amos Lee
Mother-son dances are traditional at weddings. Sometimes, people skip this at their wedding, but for the most part, there’s always a mother-son dance. Here are some songs that will fit a mother-son dance perfectly.
Forever Young - Rod Stewart
Days Like This - Van Morrison
You Are the Sunshine of My Life - Stevie Wonder
He Gets That From Me - Reba McEntire
Beautiful Boy - John Lennon
Small Bump - Ed Sheeran
Have I Told You Lately - Rod Stewart
Thank You, Mom - Good Charlotte
Mama Said - Lukas Graham
Mother - Sugarland
Slipping Through My Fingers - ABBA
Hey Mama - Kanye West
Wedding music for dancing at the reception after the mother-son dance when the dance floor is open to all can be hard to select. This part is the majority of the reception. To make the most of the music, having live performances for the reception is best. It has a whole different level of energy.
Dancing in The Moonlight – Toploader
How Long Will I Love You – Ellie Goulding
Walking On Sunshine – Katrina & The Waves
Dreams Come True – Westlife
Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go – Wham!
Be Mine – David Gray
Always Remember Us This Way - Lady Gaga
As Long As You Love Me – Backstreet Boys
Moon River – Frank Sinatra
The Best – Tina Turner
The Luckiest – Ben Folds
All About That Bass – Meghan Trainor
Can You Feel the Love Tonight – Elton John
I Gotta Feeling – The Black Eyed Peas
Wildest Dreams - Taylor Swift
Mamma Mia – ABBA
Like I’m Gonna Lose You - Meghan Trainor
You Are So Beautiful - Joe Cocker
Best Song Ever – One Direction
We Found Love - Rihanna
By Baby Just Cares for Me - Nina Simone
Shallow - Lady Gaga & Bradley Cooper
Be My Baby - Ariana Grande
Bad Liar - Selena Gomez
Little Things - One Direction
This is where the wedding comes to an end and you may want to end it with a blast. One last song for your guests and you to dance your heart out. So, which song should you choose? Here are some stellar options:
Love Story - Taylor Swift
Sweet Caroline - Neil Diamond
We Are Young - Fun. featuring Janelle Monáe
Today Was a Fairytale - Taylor Swift
Forever - Chris Brown
The Time of My Life - Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes
Let’s Get It On - Marvin Gaye
One More Time - Daft Punk
One Love - Bob Marley
Last Dance - Donna Summer
Planning a wedding is full of a million tiny details. Your wedding music is just another thing that needs to be taken care of. With that said, it’s still important as it adds to the experience of your guests.
To make the most out of the playlist you chose, hiring a live band is the best thing to do. You can share your music wishlist with the band you’re thinking of hiring and they’ll let you know whether they can perform the songs.
If you don’t have a band yet, don’t worry UK Live Entertainment has you covered with top-rated wedding musicians to perform at your ceremony and reception.